Well...I did it.

[Jacene]

If you read my old thread, you would understand this one, if you never saw that one, you can read it here if you want

http://forums.gucomics.com/viewtopic.php?t=8385

But long story short...I took her to the field we were playing at the other day tonight...tell her how I felt and basically was turned down and she told me she has the other guy...hes been pissing her off recently...she told me "friends for now." which is never a good thing.

So just thought I would let yall know.

[Da_Dude]

Just being opitmisic, here but may I slightly stress the words "for now." Just pointing it out....I feel for ya man, but hey to quote the song that saved my life, Float on- Modest Mouse, "We all float on." So hey hold on and hope fer the best. And also you wouldn't want a girl in a relationship good or bad to say "yes." Never turns out well. So maybe its a matter of can't right now. Wish you all the luck I can give.

[Daiv]

"friends for now." which is never a good thing.



If you think that, you wont get anywhere.

If she didn't want to remain friends, like not speak with you anymore, you'll know you've done something wrong.

I remember asking the same girl out 3 or 4 times in the period of 6 years.
We're still friends :D
She gave me a pat on the back for being a persistant bugger :P

Its all part of growing up.

[Jacene]

Ha thats cool, a pat on the back.

Well I think she might be avoiding me...ive been trying to call her because I know she is sick so she can't leave, I was going to call her and see if she wanted me come over and I could bring a movie and pick up some dinner for her on the way there but shes been ignoring me all day...

She told me we would still be friends.

[Da_Dude]

Its common for that to happen after you tell a friend you like them. And always expect it when they are already in a relationship. Find a way to go to her and tell her that if she doesn't feel about you the way you do her, then thats fine, but make it clear that no matter what you want to remain her friend and don't ever want that to change. Make a clear, memorable stand on this. Not only is it impressing but it drives the point on home.

[Daiv]

Ha thats cool, a pat on the back.

Well I think she might be avoiding me...ive been trying to call her because I know she is sick so she can't leave, I was going to call her and see if she wanted me come over and I could bring a movie and pick up some dinner for her on the way there but shes been ignoring me all day...

She told me we would still be friends.

Just give it time and give her the space she needs.
I think in time, she'll speak to you again. You may be involving yourself too soon after you broke the news to her.

As said above, its common for that to happen

This way, should the worse happen, and she doesn't want to speak to you, you'll be used to not seeing her anyway.

If she's ill, she'll probably want to be alone anyway. Alothough I don't know the person, I can't comment accurately on that :)

[Jacene]

I have been talking to a few friends of mine and they have told me to wait for her to call me, if she wants to continue relations with me, then she will let me know. I called her Saturday night but she was busy and she told me nothing was going to be weird between us. But time will tell.

[Nymph]

sit back and breath.....It is slightly weird when a friend tells you that they care more about you then the " just good friends" way. She'll come around, it jus may take a week or so. She prolly is feeling scared that she will hurt you by just wanting to be your friend. Just a tiny " In the Minds of Girls " thought there.....Hope it all goes well in the end for ya :D