One bad day in a sea of months

[Tome]

Well now shall well get started?
Ok good...
Well so for the end of last school year, this past summer, and to this vary moment I have liked for the majority of the time listed. Well I went up to her to day at lunch after PSAT and the Military test.(name escapes me) She is with some friends and she did not see me. She lest out some thing a bout another guy I will never forget for the rest of my high school and most of my collage years, “*name of guy here* is so god damn hot but if only he was devoted and sweet to me as–“ she sees me and cuts off her talk. She cracked a nerves smile and spouted “Hi, hi!” to me. Well I told her and her posse of friend that we are going to 5th after lunch and to have a kick ass fore day weekend. I walked off got a coke on my way to American history, stopped by my locker in my mane hall and put a BIG dint in to the back of it. Now I got home and pulled out ice cream and ate all of it. Now I’m a class act, I told her how I felt about her in a vary dumb why, and the hole 9 yards.
So any one know of a good why to get over some one, and if not a why to cope? Any and all help will be most appreciated and I give thanks ahead of time.
Night all, hopefully I will get some sleep. Damn ultra ice cream super charge..

*Edit due to massive Suger charge.

[Serresrelic]

Eh, I have no idea what you just said... but whatever happened, I hope things get better for you.

[Breandan]

yeah, may want to go back and edit that to make it understandable because I am so lost I am waiting to bump into Rod Serling :shock:

[Lirren]

I think the gist of it is that he's really liked this one girl for about the past six months but he overheard her talking about some other guy who she thought was really hot and how she wished the "hot" guy was as "sweet and devoted to her as --" (I'm assuming she was about to put Tome's RL name at the end of that sentence but was cut off). Now he's really upset because she apparently would prefer to be with someone else.

At some point he told her how he felt about her. And now he's wondering what kind of suggestions he can get for getting over her.

/end translation

[Zabatik]

Lirren thanks for that translation... unfortunetly my last relationship did not end to well. And I just got over what I did wrong (2 years have passed). I gotta say focus on things one day at a time. Hang out with your friends and don't try and forget just let her become less and less importent in your life. Its honestly the best thing to do I think. Ok well I gotta cut this short cause I need to head off to work but, the last thing I want to say is this.

Take deep breaths don't go punching lockers or kicking trees and such it only hurts you not them. Violence is only going to lead you down a dark road that can end up in jail. Trust me it aint fun.

[Tome]

Aye, I hit my locker for the first time..
I normaly ues a punching bag to kill Flustrashon.
And ya she spit out the first part of my name befor she saw me.
And on top of this My Grant Aunt died thursday.

Not vary good week if ye ask me.

[Breandan]

this is going to sound harsh, but it is, as with most of my advice, meant to be a no-BS layout of the situation. You are young, and I know you don't see it because you have lived so little life that every second seems like a life-age of the world, but the things that seem so serious- crushes, loves, hates, slights, injuries, insults, and even triumphs- will fade in time as they are replaced by the far more intense, long-lasting, and stable versions of adulthood (which, for Western cultures, starts sometime after 25 in practice). This does nothing to assuage the anger or hurt you feel, but at the same time it might help you to understand that she, too, is young, and the emotional whipsaws of folks in their teens and tweens resembles an epileptic cat on a hotplate. I am not saying you do not feel the way you do, or that it is any less valid, I am saying that you will not feel it so intensely in but a short time, and in ten years will likely have forgotten all about it as newer, far more powerfull emotions and events come into your life.

What is a high-school crush compared to meeting the love of your life, placing the ring upon her finger as she fights back tears of joy, and holding your first-born child high in the air with pride? Trust me, there is more coming down the road, you have time. Try not to let the problems of youth tear you up too bad, or you will be scarred in your heart and unable to enjoy the bounties you stand to reap in later years.


Edit: Fixed craptacular spelling

[Tenolein]

-=gives Brean a GINORMOUS hug for being able to put in my thoughts into words=-

Yea.. What Brean said.